Enough about me. Let’s talk about you….
What do you think about me?
I love that joke. It is the perfect metaphor for so many things. And it’s something that I refer to frequently when talking to clients.
The fact is, people are obsessed with themselves. OK, maybe that’s a bit strong. But it is fair to say that if you can make what you’re communicating about me, and not just about some random “other” who may or may not be like me, I am far more likely to listen to you, really hear you, understand you and, perhaps most importantly, remember you (and your message.)